Take Care of Ur 20s...............
The 20
Mistakes You Should not do in Your 20s
Your 20s compose
undoubtedly the most pivotal time in your life. While there are plenty
of temptations and distractions, the decisions you make here are truly what
dictate your future, as the weak fail and only the strong survive.
Do you have what it takes to
become a monumental success? Or will you live out a life of mediocrity? The
choice is up to you. While many think they have all the answers and the keys to success, we have seen those
people make the same pitfalls too many times before.
This is the time for you to hustle, scrap and fight for the life
that you want for yourself. You manifest your own destiny during these crucial
years.
Every move you make is a test.
These are the 20 Mistakes You should not do in Your 20s.
20. Working for money, not for building your dreams
Never do anything just because
it’s convenient for you. Look to challenge yourself and build your own dream
instead ofbuilding someone else’s.
Even if it doesn’t exactly make sense now, create something with great value so
you can cash out big.
Always look to the future and
never for immediate compensation. What are you going to do with those weekly wages anyways? Stop
being so entitled and pretending like you deserve cash, prizes and vacations just yet. You will
soon realize once you’ve made it that making money doesn’t make you
happy. It’s the journey.
19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love
While all of your friends might be doing it, don’t fall into the
trap of a relationship. Sure it seems like the right thing to do, but your 20s
are entirely too crucial for your personal growth for you to be focusing on
fulfilling the wishes of another individual.
Not only does it make you
complacent with where you are in life, but it makes you boring. When your business is at stake and
your future is resting on your shoulders, the last thing you need is to be
bogged down by an insecure lover rushing you home.
Get out there, meet new people, test the limits and have fun. It
will take you to the places you’ve only dreamed of going.
18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning how to become
one
Instead of going overboard on bottles in
the club, spend that time focusing on your
career.
Every second counts and if more time is spent pretending to be
the person you want to be instead of becoming that man, then you’ll sink in
quick sand without even knowing it.
A real man is willing to make sacrifices. If you aren’t down to
put in the work, then please don’t act like you are. You can enjoy the success
when you actually attain it.
17. Making friends instead of earning trust
The in-crowd may be tempting, but you’ll probably fall victim to
surrounding yourself with social climbers. We know you feel entitled to
celebrate, but please relax. It’s never attractive when you act as though this
is the last time you’ll ever see this in life.
Make connections with people based on trial and error, not
presuppositions and drunk ranting about what they can do for your business.
If you ever want people to take you seriously, then you have to
take them seriously. Just because you think you trust someone doesn’t always
mean you can. Heed any red flags in the past before jumping into any kind of
venture with them.
16. Not caring because you only live once — that’s for fools
We all are guilty of irrational
decision-making in our 20s. Fast people and fast times with money in your pocket
always lead to over-extending yourself.
15. Making all your wants, needs
The expensive
sneakers should not be on the list of your needs. Setting the foundation for
your business and team is far more important than updating your wardrobe.
Distinguish between what you want and what you actually need.
Make sure your priorities are in tact or you will lose your track.
14. Forgetting that family comes first
Those who supported you before anything deserve to be taken care
of when you reach your success. If you aren’t doing this for the ones you love,
then you’re not doing it right. Family comes first, no matter what happens. If
you work for whom you love instead of just yourself, you will get far.
13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything in life
Hold yourself accountable for everything. At the end of the day,
all you have in the world is yourself — so go hard. Don’t look to anyone for
answers and instead of making problems, create solutions.
Whether it was that job you wanted, the funding you needed or
the love you think you can’t live without, there is no one that can be held
accountable in this universe except for you.
12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve down time
Unless you’re chilling with Victoria’s Secret models in Monaco
this weekend, you shouldn’t even be thinking about taking a break anytime soon.
You need a vacation?
What have you accomplished? Mark Cuban spent seven years
building out his first business before he even took a break. Don’t get lazy
now.
11. Sticking with jobs that didn’t teach you anything
A bad job is like an unhealthy relationship. Truthfully, the
only reason you’re there is because it is the safest and easiest thing you
know.
Any job or relationship that allows for you to get comfortable
should be avoided at all costs. The last scenario you could ever want is
becoming like the rest of those miserable 40-somethings faced with weekends of
minivans and soccer practice.
10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it
You can be aware of the trends, but never follow them. If all
your time is spent trying to adjust to your surroundings, you’ll get lost in
the crowd all the more easily.
Success and greatness are constructed by trendsetters
themselves, not those who latched on to what’s currently trending. We hope that
you don’t have any aspirations to look like your favorite rapper. Temptation to
be influenced by those who you aspire to be like is easy, but no one finds his
or her calling while following in the footsteps of another.
9. Failing to energize those around you
Although you may sometimes think there is a lack of talent in
your networks — this is never the case. It is your sole responsibility to
inspire, encourage and drive those around you to succeed.
Failing to do so only confirms that you fall victim to that
which you accuse others of. Change and greatness can be sparked everywhere, but
bring it upon yourself to trigger it.
8. Thinking you need to stop learning and growing
You have more zeros at the end of your bank statement and stamps
in your passport than you had ever imagined. Don’t consider this your victory
lap, but rather as a taste of greatness. Do you live to enjoy the moments you
dreamed of or a lifetime of unimaginable success?
The common misconception that once things are in your favor, you
no longer have to put in the 3:00AM work hours is a dangerous problem. The
fewer nights that you’re willing to put in the work, the fewer opportunities
you will have to celebrate your achievements in the future.
7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back
Your 20s will be accompanied with a slew of poor investments by
both you and those around you. Whether rich or poor, there will always be
someone in your circle that will need a helping hand. If you ever think you’re
going to see that money again, you’re sorely mistaken.
If there were a plan of action and re-investment, then the truth
is that you will not see $1 back. Times are tough, especially in your 20s and
finding a route back to financial freedom is often seen only when winning the
lotto or signing your first deal with Ca$h Money Records.
Of course miracles do happen, but the probabilities that you’ve
essentially given the money away are far too high.
6. Investing in relationships with the wrong values
Your love life is an investment — and the smarter the deals you
execute, the savvier of an investor you become. Instead of navigating through
an ambiguous investment in which you shower your lover with cash and prizes for
existing, make sure he or she will demonstrate positive returns. Your love life
should have a solid ROI.
5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add no value to
your life
You’ll be sucked down into the abyss right with them if you
don’t cut the fat of the group. Family and friends could have been great to you
as a child, but if they no longer hold the value and inspiration that is needed
for you to thrive in life, then cut them loose.
The only individuals you should be surrounding yourself with are
those that challenge your ideas and motivate you to find the next solution to
your problems. No, not the pessimistic who shoot down your ideas with
their negativity, but rather the ones who genuinely want to see you succeed no
matter what you do in life.
4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending every dollar you
have
If our check is for $9, then we’re most likely spending $30.
Between credit cards, school loans and every other avenue for attaining a quick
dollar, our need for immediate gratification is worse than ever.
The truth is it’s about making more money, not saving it. But at
the same time, if you have no means for expanding your revenue channels, then
you must be able to save a few dollars here and there. No one likes to have to
walk to work because he blew every dollar at LAVO.
3. Not wrapping it before tapping it
If you don’t want to have a child then you better limit your
excuses. As vulgar as it may sound, sometimes there are only a few options in
life, so you must avoid all potential margins of error.
The road to success is not paved
with having responsibilities of children and your future wife to be. This is a
somewhat lonely journey that you must take by yourself and those you love will be
able to celebrate with you after.
2. Dating unstable people with mommy and daddy issues
We need to control the invincibility we all feel when it comes
to both men and women. Whether she’s a stripper or he’s a frat bro, we feel the
need to be the knight in shining armor for our lovers.
As chivalrous as this may seem, we hate to break it to you, but
you will never be able to change anyone. By setting yourself up for a losing
battle, you’ve only ensured your misery for the next few months. She’s clingy
for a reason, don’t be her Dr. Phil. And if he doesn’t have ambition now, he
never will.
1. Never Forget the Principle of Karma:
Whether it’s burning bridges with people you loved, stealing
your friend’s girlfriend or plotting against an ex-partner, we must always
remember the law of Karma.
There is nothing more true than the fact that whatever goes
around comes around, and you are not immune to the cosmic forces that be. We’re
not asking you to go on your Mother Teresa pilgrimage, but don’t be surprised
when reality catches back up with you and brings you to your knees. Be a good
person. You’ll get further in life.
- With Best Wishes............
Deepali Agravat
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